Monday, June 18, 2012

Echoes of PHS 1969 Classmate Gathering June 16th

Please click on the image below to watch a YouTube video of the actual toast:


Photo above by Ann McKeown Glass.  Photo below of Drambuie Toast by Robert Nelson
PHS 1969 Gathering - Bob Stetson's Remarks
PHS 1969 Gathering - Sylvia Simpson's Remarks

Sunday, June 3, 2012

A Paragraph Leslie Marked in a Book Years Ago

Leslie's sister Shelley either gave Leslie a copy of or told her to buy Terry Tempest William’s “Refuge: An Unnatural History of Family and Place,” a book relating to the Bear River Wildlife Refuge on the Great Salt Lake as well as to her family.  It is a 1992 edition, long before anything we have been dealing with recently. 

The book was behind a bunch of other stuff (some CDs, our camera, etc.) on a bookcase, so I doubt that Leslie has looked at it recently.


However, Leslie had marked the cover of the book “pg 178” in her handwriting before it wound up where I found it. 

This is the entirety of page 178 – which is absolutely marvelous. 

“I am slowly, painfully discovering that my refuge is not found in my mother, my grandmother, or even the birds of Bear River.  My refuge exists in my capacity to love.  If I can learn to love death then I can begin to find refuge in change.”


Bill Marcus June 3, 2012

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Leslie and Bill


Bill and Leslie, Quebec, 2008



Leslie Bowman Marcus
July 5, 1951 - May 29, 2012



Leslie Bowman Marcus, 60, a resident of Woodland since 1992, died of pancreatic cancer on Tuesday, May 29, 2012. She was born on July 5, 1951 in Oakland. At age 4 she was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes.  She would not let the disease defeat her and experienced a full life and great improvements in the treatment of diabetes.

She graduated from Piedmont High School in 1969 and still had many high school friends.  She received a bachelor of arts in rhetoric from UC Davis in 1973.  Over the years, Leslie worked as Sacramento campus coordinator at Golden Gate University, as a trainer and telecommunications manager at Kaiser Hospital in Sacramento, as a personnel consultant for small businesses, and finally, for seven years, in Woodland, as a paralegal and director of the Fair Housing Hotline Project of Legal Services of Northern California.

Starting out as an opponent of the Vietnam war, Leslie always was a political activist.  She cared deeply about affordable housing, served on the board of Community Housing Opportunities Corporation in the 1990s and worked with the City Council and staff in Woodland to pass the ordinance that requires construction of affordable housing in new developments in Woodland.  She helped the Democratic Party all her life, running the party headquarters in Woodland in 2008.  Her last political effort was as campaign treasurer in the successful bipartisan effort to raise the sales tax in Woodland in 2010 (Measure V).

Leslie has always had an active Christian faith and knows that she passed away wrapped in God's arms.  She was a lifelong Episcopalian, obtained theological training from the four-year Education for Ministry program of the University of the South, and served for five years on the Commission on Ministry of the Episcopal Diocese of Northern California. She ended her life as a member of the parish church where she grew up – St. John's in Oakland, which her parents still attend.

She married Bill Marcus, the love of her life, in 1985 and had a long and happy marriage.  She had fun traveling with her husband in the U.S., Canada, and particularly in Europe, enjoyed her home in Woodland, and loved spending time with her family, particularly her nieces and nephews as they grew from childhood and came into their own as young adults.

Leslie is survived by her husband; her parents, Thomas and Margaret Bowman;  her brothers, David Bowman (wife Gloria Miller) and Jim Bowman (fiancée Beth de Jarnette); her sister, Shelley Andrews (husband Don); her sister in deep friendship, Ximena Bustamante; seven nieces and nephews, a grand-niece, and grand-nephew, and many friends.

In lieu of flowers, please make donations to the Yolo County Food Bank, 1244 Fortuna Ave., Woodland, 95776;  St. John's Episcopal Church, 1707 Gouldin Road, Oakland, 94611;  the Church Divinity School of the Pacific, 2454 Ridge Road, Berkeley, 94706; or a charity of the donor's choice.


To view or download the 16 page .PDF file of the order of service for Leslie's Celebration of Life, please click on the cover image below:



Tuesday, April 3, 2012

April 1st Message From Leslie (Not An April Fool Joke...)

Anne [Cobbledick Gritzer] - everything is turned on its head now.  Back into the hospital in Sacramento on Wed morning (March 28) through yesterday evening, and then was transported by ambulance from there to my home.  The ambulance was necessary because "on board" the vehicle with me was the personal pain dispenser machine, that allows me to dose myself with morphine every six minutes as needed (in addition to the "regular" 90 mg of tablet morphine every 8 hours).  The Federal Drug Enforcement Administration won't allow this pain medication to be moved from one location to another unless accompanied by the right kind of folks, I guess ...

The chemo I've been on for six months has stopped being effective, the only alternative kind of chemo has much worse side effects, the worse of which feels like the one where I feel like my throat is closing and that's I'm going to choke to death, and that "new" treatment would only (if I'm lucky) extend my life by a couple of months at best.  Horrible side effects loaded on top of the ones I already have suffered with the "old" chemo, continued rides (and me no longer able to get to and from places on my own), and my complete and total exhaustion from the blood clots that have now killed off 1/3 of my spleen -- add it all together, and it's time to put my affairs in order (not just a half-way, jackass way of being prepared) and get ready for the solution to the life-long mystery ...

Time for 90 mg's of morphine and bed, followed by more of the same.  If you'd like to send this out to folks or post to the Team Leslie Blog, that would be fine with me. 
Love,

Leslie